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Ruth Noemi Bendel's avatar

tbh, fascistic ideologies have creeped in the mainstream and I don't know if it's because we are so used to trends happening every 2 days that people don't pay much attention to the origins of the trend or what it truly means but it's is maddening to see incel/fascist theories being spread like there's nothing and therefore promoting dangerous and racist/ableist rhetoric to young and impressionable people

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abbymallard's avatar

ur right abt the seeping into normal life bit, people can’t just be attracted to people with their heart they have to intellectualise it and bring in what they think society finds attractive- this also happens with their own self. i think i look good but i have xyz features and my face is asymmetrical and this and that, and now im not feeling so confident abt myself. i’ve noticed that i’ve had those thoughts a lot less now that i’ve stop consuming that content, and i’ve also stopped doing it with other people as well- seeing their face and immediately putting them in these different categories or whatever. but i think a lot of people still think like that with no effort to get out.

when u look at it for what it is, it has a striking resemblance to eugenics but bc people still believe that they’ll get benefits from subscribing to these beliefs and rituals they’ll find every way to justify it- a common sentiment is that “if this is the way the world already works why dont i play into it and get the rewards”. i kind of used to think like that too but then i matured and realised that you’re never going to be happy if you’re always under this hierarchical tension, even if you’re at the top (which you’ll never reach) you still wont be secure bc the fact that theres a hierarchy means that you’re still under threat. it’s an individualistic way of thinking, not everyone can looksmax and-as you said- there will always be people who’ll be considered “bottom of rung” no matter what they do.

it’s also sad that many people feel the need to erase their ethnic features just bc of some ideal that was pitted against them from the beginning

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